Sometimes the BEST tips about men, come FROM MEN. We’re always trying to figure them out, analyze this, analyze that. Maybe all we need to do is go to the source! After publishing my blog piece. Flirt Adventures, tips on dating the younger man, Chris from Computersarestupid.com, had these great insights:

“I have to say that you hit it right on the nail. If you want to flirt, or have an adventure with a ‘younger man’… Just show some interest! Most women their own age don’t show the same interest you might – Honest and up front, and guys tend to like to know where they stand and not have to play games..

Think about it. When you were younger, and were not as seasoned, you may have been nice to a guy with no intention of flirting or romance or an adventure… And the next thing you know he’s running after you like a puppy.

I’m 44, VERY happily married and not a younger man… but I was once a younger man, so I am speaking from experience here. Us guys are rather simple (in sometimes a complex way)… So, being straight forward and honest will definately help you to meet men, attractive or not. Women have a power over men that they don’t truly understand. And the funny thing is that men know that… and will get in-line rather quickly.

But that power you Women have can also attract the kind of men you may not be interested in… you could wind up with a whole pack of puppies chasing after you.

Great article again… Got me to writing for sure.”

Thanks Chris!

-Tracy Pattin

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